Mr. Tom ,your son is the way he is because of the options you have given him in life. The option to go to a fine school and have a fine set of God fearing parents who take the time to listen to his needs when he needs to tell you something. Being at that tennis match the first time,taking him fishing and hunting instead of leaving him home with the TV,making Sunday school a way of life and rewarding him for the success you expect of him in his endeavours. What else can you be but proud ,you have done a fine job and he will be as good of a father as you are because of it. Carry on with the good work both of you ,ya'll give a lot of people inspiration with your acts of kindness and stories of success. Can't wait till he gets his own post, it will be interesting to here his stories in a catdaddy jr fashion.