Quote from: NCL on July 10, 2019, 08:54:06 AM
GN,
You and I are on the exactly the same page philosophically. I grew up that your word is your bond and if you shake hands on a deal you had better stick to the deal. If there is a misunderstanding then we sit down and figure put a reasonable solution. I always viewed permission to hunt someone's property was a gift and a very generous gift, to me more valuable than money because it denoted they trusted you to respect them and their property.
Couldn't agree more, NCL. Our society has most certainly moved from the philosophy of personal values and accountability to one of a "what's in it for me?" mind-set. We have become a litigious society, for sure,...which is why I have adopted the philosophy I have outlined.
Just presenting the image of "our agreement is between you and me,...not between me and your lawyer or insurance company" at least starts off the conversation with the precept of "if you are planning on jerking me around, you better think twice about it because I ain't playin' this game with your lawyer,...I'm playin' it with YOU"!
....That may be harsh, but it gets the point across right off the bat. Perhaps if more people would use that tact, we wouldn't be in the situation we are now.
Quite honestly, I am not nearly as crazy as I sound regarding this (although some here might disagree
),...but just presenting that image weeds out a lot of the potential headaches from those that are looking for ways to "game the system".