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[eggshell]

I'm sure I come across as a grumpy old man at times, but I truly try not to be that way in real life. As we get older we do get more opinionated and it's territory all will face unless you die young. I think a large proportion of us are in our senior years and that may cause some of the conflict, because the young mind and senior mind does not think the same.

I have been involved in several forums and I have come to personally know several people I met through forums. Some I consider to be very good friends. I think that internet forums do not paint true pictures of who people are in real life. Most of us try to offer our thoughts and opinions as precise and compact as possible to avoid writing thesis and that means we often do a poor job of expressing ourselves. Then it's left up to the reader to interpret these post the way they would a conversation. This leads to problems because in conversations you can read a persons attitude and get quick corrections. On a forum it's written and read and then left to be taken in multiple ways. I am guilty of letting my emotions tell me things that aren't true and I often am aggravated at myself for reacting wrongly. I guess what I am saying is to be careful about making judgements simply from a forum post, ask questions and join in the discussion.

I bet that many of us that have had disagreements and even been pissed at each other would actually get along just fine hunting together in the turkey woods. I can honestly say everyone I have ever met in person from a forum have been very nice people. So I think we're doing just fine and if anything we just need to step back our emotional responses a tad. Even when it's gotten heated I think it's still been respectful and I appreciate that....carry on

[Greg Massey]

I really liked watching that old iconic movie made in 1993 called : Grumpy Old Men...............

[Paulmyr]

I really liked watching that old iconic movie made in 1993 called : Grumpy Old Men...............

Been to slippery's in Wabasha a couple times. It's not the same bar portrayed in the movie.

[Howieg]

I just laugh when others disagree with my views !
   Because , im always right ! ... just ask my wife , she will 100% vouch for this ...

[bwhana]

I'm sure I come across as a grumpy old man at times, but I truly try not to be that way in real life. As we get older we do get more opinionated and it's territory all will face unless you die young. I think a large proportion of us are in our senior years and that may cause some of the conflict, because the young mind and senior mind does not think the same.

I have been involved in several forums and I have come to personally know several people I met through forums. Some I consider to be very good friends. I think that internet forums do not paint true pictures of who people are in real life. Most of us try to offer our thoughts and opinions as precise and compact as possible to avoid writing thesis and that means we often do a poor job of expressing ourselves. Then it's left up to the reader to interpret these post the way they would a conversation. This leads to problems because in conversations you can read a persons attitude and get quick corrections. On a forum it's written and read and then left to be taken in multiple ways. I am guilty of letting my emotions tell me things that aren't true and I often am aggravated at myself for reacting wrongly. I guess what I am saying is to be careful about making judgements simply from a forum post, ask questions and join in the discussion.

I bet that many of us that have had disagreements and even been pissed at each other would actually get along just fine hunting together in the turkey woods. I can honestly say everyone I have ever met in person from a forum have been very nice people. So I think we're doing just fine and if anything we just need to step back our emotional responses a tad. Even when it's gotten heated I think it's still been respectful and I appreciate that....carry on

Can't agree more with you!

We, meaning me and all of us on here, sometimes forget that the majority of folks here ultimately share a common passion for some crazy birds.  This is a hard core group, not beginners and intermediates for the most part.

We would all get along just sharing a campfire given the opportunity, despite having some different opinions on methods and techniques along the way.    Much better to admire and respect the common things we share and appreciate all the good things on the site.

[Turkeybutt]

I'm sure I come across as a grumpy old man at times, but I truly try not to be that way in real life. As we get older we do get more opinionated and it's territory all will face unless you die young. I think a large proportion of us are in our senior years and that may cause some of the conflict, because the young mind and senior mind does not think the same.

I have been involved in several forums and I have come to personally know several people I met through forums. Some I consider to be very good friends. I think that internet forums do not paint true pictures of who people are in real life. Most of us try to offer our thoughts and opinions as precise and compact as possible to avoid writing thesis and that means we often do a poor job of expressing ourselves. Then it's left up to the reader to interpret these post the way they would a conversation. This leads to problems because in conversations you can read a persons attitude and get quick corrections. On a forum it's written and read and then left to be taken in multiple ways. I am guilty of letting my emotions tell me things that aren't true and I often am aggravated at myself for reacting wrongly. I guess what I am saying is to be careful about making judgements simply from a forum post, ask questions and join in the discussion.

I bet that many of us that have had disagreements and even been pissed at each other would actually get along just fine hunting together in the turkey woods. I can honestly say everyone I have ever met in person from a forum have been very nice people. So I think we're doing just fine and if anything we just need to step back our emotional responses a tad. Even when it's gotten heated I think it's still been respectful and I appreciate that....carry on

Can't agree more with you!

We, meaning me and all of us on here, sometimes forget that the majority of folks here ultimately share a common passion for some crazy birds.  This is a hard core group, not beginners and intermediates for the most part.

We would all get along just sharing a campfire given the opportunity, despite having some different opinions on methods and techniques along the way.    Much better to admire and respect the common things we share and appreciate all the good things on the site.

Ditto

[Tom007]

I'm sure I come across as a grumpy old man at times, but I truly try not to be that way in real life. As we get older we do get more opinionated and it's territory all will face unless you die young. I think a large proportion of us are in our senior years and that may cause some of the conflict, because the young mind and senior mind does not think the same.

I have been involved in several forums and I have come to personally know several people I met through forums. Some I consider to be very good friends. I think that internet forums do not paint true pictures of who people are in real life. Most of us try to offer our thoughts and opinions as precise and compact as possible to avoid writing thesis and that means we often do a poor job of expressing ourselves. Then it's left up to the reader to interpret these post the way they would a conversation. This leads to problems because in conversations you can read a persons attitude and get quick corrections. On a forum it's written and read and then left to be taken in multiple ways. I am guilty of letting my emotions tell me things that aren't true and I often am aggravated at myself for reacting wrongly. I guess what I am saying is to be careful about making judgements simply from a forum post, ask questions and join in the discussion.

I bet that many of us that have had disagreements and even been pissed at each other would actually get along just fine hunting together in the turkey woods. I can honestly say everyone I have ever met in person from a forum have been very nice people. So I think we're doing just fine and if anything we just need to step back our emotional responses a tad. Even when it's gotten heated I think it's still been respectful and I appreciate that....carry on

Can't agree more with you!

We, meaning me and all of us on here, sometimes forget that the majority of folks here ultimately share a common passion for some crazy birds.  This is a hard core group, not beginners and intermediates for the most part.

We would all get along just sharing a campfire given the opportunity, despite having some different opinions on methods and techniques along the way.    Much better to admire and respect the common things we share and appreciate all the good things on the site.

Ditto

Sums it up!

[Spurs]

Well,

If anyone recalls I wrote up a post about 2 weeks ago and it was removed within 12 hours because I committed the ultimate sin of calling out America's favorite camo company for price gouging their vests, and calling out the guy who made cigars and leafy suits famous.

That was disappointing as I'm sure many folks would've enjoyed engaging in that thread.

Guess this forum is now an echo chambe, a place to discuss 4th of July meals, summer vacations, and comment on the 3 word story thread.

If there's one thing i've learned over my past two decades of turkey hunting....
DO NOT cast the slightest negative commentary towards the camo company. And god forbid you say anything negative about someone exploiting our public land resources! Especially if they have prior wildlife violations that almost resulted in Lacey Act felony charges!

If it got removed for simply taking a shot at the camo company, that really reflects horribly on the future of this forum.  I know that sometimes things get removed because they become personal attacks, but if you just voiced your concerns on how over price of the Fox vest, then I'd be done with this forum for good.

[joey46]

I applaud the form administrator for allowing this thread, started 7/10, to continue reaching now close to 2800 views.  I intended it to be a hoot.  Certainly turned out that way. Will drop off now to let things calm down and shake out. If anyone was offended be assured that is was intentional.  Hunt legally and leave others alone is a good motto to live by. Good luck to all.

[Old Gobbler]

#1 rule with and social site, club, organization is....people come and revisit because it's a enjoyable experience..

Sit back and think about for a spell ,

...unlike a great place that produces a product like food ...that keeps you coming back , Oldgobbler shares information, communication and a friendly atmosphere...when a person is identified to habitually spreading a bad experience...that's the same as having a place sell bad food that makes people sick....so the "health board" does a inspection..and cleans it up

There is a reason the site has lasted so long , and that is because we have such great members, I could probably write a book on the subject

Shannon

[g8rvet]

#1 rule with and social site, club, organization is....people come and revisit because it's a enjoyable experience..

Sit back and think about for a spell ,

...unlike a great place that produces a product like food ...that keeps you coming back , Oldgobbler shares information, communication and a friendly atmosphere...when a person is identified to habitually spreading a bad experience...that's the same as having a place sell bad food that makes people sick....so the "health board" does a inspection..and cleans it up

There is a reason the site has lasted so long , and that is because we have such great members, I could probably write a book on the subject

Shannon

I would read it.  I know one name that would have it's own chapter.   

[eggshell]

Keeping it enjoyable is the challenge. I have found that keeping the contention out of people's passion is a tough road. We are all passionate about this sport and passion is when something is burnt into your soul. I stirs emotions and reaction. when you list the things in life that you are passionate about the list will identify all the things you will go to war over and protect with all your heart. Loosing them is like cutting out a piece of your soul. Understanding this concept should help us in keeping our discussions civil, fruitful and enjoyable. Everyone experiences their passions differently and develop views from a diverse life experience, so we often do not see details the same. Just as the use of many colors properly applied to a canvas make a beautiful painting so does the proper application of many views of the same passion. Grace and and forgiveness are the best rules for keeping this enjoyable. The pursuit of shared joys, knowledge and differing opinions are the fuel. It's ok to start a hot fire to sit around and roast some wieners, but not ok to burn down the house. Thank you Shannon for letting the camp fires burn hot, but saving the house at times. 

[Prospector]

 

I applaud the form administrator for allowing this thread, started 7/10, to continue reaching now close to 2800 views.  I intended it to be a hoot.  Certainly turned out that way. Will drop off now to let things calm down and shake out. If anyone was offended be assured that is was intentional.  Hunt legally and leave others alone is a good motto to live by. Good luck to all.

Yessir. Though my opinion may differ from many, I am in no way preparing to break out the torches and pitchforks about those differences . As long as you are hunting within the laws it doesn't matter what you, me or anyone else thinks. Good luck and GOD Bless.