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Started by busta biggun, February 10, 2012, 11:29:02 AM
Quote from: CASH on February 10, 2012, 01:31:38 PMThat's the truth. I know when I messed up I dreaded my dad coming home from work.
Quote from: BowBendr on February 11, 2012, 01:08:57 PMAs a foster parent of over 40+ children over the past 10 yrs or so, I thought about this a long time before posting up.This is probably one of the most disturbing things i've ever seen. These parents are failing and failing miserably.What this guy did will do nothing to change his daughters behaviors, and will probably make it worse. She'll just go to school and borrow a cell phone to keep this going to retaliate further. Why ? Because the parent was dragged down to the level the child was operating at. They raised this child and they taught her how to act, I can probably guarantee that this child was raised as a princess from birth until 12 or 13 yrs. old and then when she started exhibiting behaviors they didn't like, they tried to rein it in, all at once, and that seldom ever works. She was raised with a sense of entitlement and she'll always rebel at the thought of ever having to work for anything. Period. They are the ones who spoiled her.You can clearly see that he bit his tounge to keep from cursing several times while reading her profanity laced letter to them, so that only can mean that she learned how to curse from them, and he tried to refrain from cursing while speaking to appear to be above what he taught. I see it everyday.What's worse is that with over 3 million hits and going viral, local people of their area have seen this video, and while there may be nothing legally anyone can do to him for shooting the lap-top, this won't be the last he'll hear of it. He will be seen as a parent that uses "violent means" to correct problems in his home...a loose cannon that raised a troubled child that may have the potential to "pop" if he can't get his daughter straightened out. We deal with the Dept. of Social Services and agents from Child Welfare/Protection everyday in our home with our foster kids. I can promise you that he will be looked at as the bad guy.So in the end, she won. She lured them down to her level, lost a computer that she never cared about anyway, and probably will get her dad in trouble....exactly what she wanted.....Just food for thought and my humble opinion, but I do believe that situation can be repaired.