I've had a couple of frustrating situations over the past few weeks, as most of us tend to run into from time to time. For some reason, when I have to deal with difficult personalities, I think of Balaam from the Old Testament. That said, I finally took the time to read a bit more into who in the world Balaam was. Lets take a look at the history a bit and then read what the Bible says about the situation.
Balaam was a gentile prophet (he was also known as a magician or soothsayer) in the time period when Moses led the Israelites out of Egypt. They were conquering cities and towns as they advanced toward the promised land. Gentile prophets were not common, as the Jews were God's chosen people, but Balaam was one of the gentiles that prayed to and heard from God.
Let's look at Numbers 22:
Numbers 22 (The Message)
Numbers 22
Balaam
1 The People of Israel marched on and camped on the Plains of Moab at Jordan-Jericho.
2-3 Balak son of Zippor learned of all that Israel had done to the Amorites. The people of Moab were in a total panic because of Israel. There were so many of them! They were terrorized. 4-5 Moab spoke to the leaders of Midian: "Look, this mob is going to clean us out—a bunch of crows picking a carcass clean."
Balak son of Zippor, who was king of Moab at that time, sent emissaries to get Balaam son of Beor, who lived at Pethor on the banks of the Euphrates River, his homeland.
5-6 Balak's emissaries said, "Look. A people has come up out of Egypt, and they're all over the place! And they're pressing hard on me. Come and curse them for me—they're too much for me. Maybe then I can beat them; we'll attack and drive them out of the country. You have a reputation: Those you bless stay blessed; those you curse stay cursed."
7-8 The leaders of Moab and Midian were soon on their way, with the fee for the cursing tucked safely in their wallets. When they got to Balaam, they gave him Balak's message.
"Stay here for the night," Balaam said. "In the morning I'll deliver the answer that God gives me."
The Moabite nobles stayed with him.
9 Then God came to Balaam. He asked, "So who are these men here with you?"
10-11 Balaam answered, "Balak son of Zippor, king of Moab, sent them with a message: 'Look, the people that came up out of Egypt are all over the place! Come and curse them for me. Maybe then I'll be able to attack and drive them out of the country.'"
12 God said to Balaam, "Don't go with them. And don't curse the others—they are a blessed people."
13 The next morning Balaam got up and told Balak's nobles, "Go back home; God refuses to give me permission to go with you."
14 So the Moabite nobles left, came back to Balak, and said, "Balaam wouldn't come with us."
15-17 Balak sent another group of nobles, higher ranking and more distinguished. They came to Balaam and said, "Balak son of Zippor says, 'Please, don't refuse to come to me. I will honor and reward you lavishly— anything you tell me to do, I'll do; I'll pay anything—only come and curse this people.'"
18-19 Balaam answered Balak's servants: "Even if Balak gave me his house stuffed with silver and gold, I wouldn't be able to defy the orders of my God to do anything, whether big or little. But come along and stay with me tonight as the others did; I'll see what God will say to me this time."
20 God came to Balaam that night and said, "Since these men have come all this way to see you, go ahead and go with them. But make sure you do absolutely nothing other than what I tell you."
21-23 Balaam got up in the morning, saddled his donkey, and went off with the noblemen from Moab. As he was going, though, God's anger flared. The angel of God stood in the road to block his way. Balaam was riding his donkey, accompanied by his two servants. When the donkey saw the angel blocking the road and brandishing a sword, she veered off the road into the ditch. Balaam beat the donkey and got her back on the road.
24-25 But as they were going through a vineyard, with a fence on either side, the donkey again saw God's angel blocking the way and veered into the fence, crushing Balaam's foot against the fence. Balaam hit her again.
26-27 God's angel blocked the way yet again—a very narrow passage this time; there was no getting through on the right or left. Seeing the angel, Balaam's donkey sat down under him. Balaam lost his temper; he beat the donkey with his stick.
28 Then God gave speech to the donkey. She said to Balaam: "What have I ever done to you that you have beat me these three times?"
29 Balaam said, "Because you've been playing games with me! If I had a sword I would have killed you by now."
30 The donkey said to Balaam, "Am I not your trusty donkey on whom you've ridden for years right up until now? Have I ever done anything like this to you before? Have I?"
He said, "No."
31 Then God helped Balaam see what was going on: He saw God's angel blocking the way, brandishing a sword. Balaam fell to the ground, his face in the dirt.
32-33 God's angel said to him: "Why have you beaten your poor donkey these three times? I have come here to block your way because you're getting way ahead of yourself. The donkey saw me and turned away from me these three times. If she hadn't, I would have killed you by this time, but not the donkey. I would have let her off."
34 Balaam said to God's angel, "I have sinned. I had no idea you were standing in the road blocking my way. If you don't like what I'm doing, I'll head back."
35 But God's angel said to Balaam, "Go ahead and go with them. But only say what I tell you to say—absolutely no other word."
And so Balaam continued to go with Balak's nobles.
Obviously, when I think of this story when confronted with difficult people, I prefer to read the King James version just for "literary content"... nuff said.
Think about it... Here is someone that recognizes the power of God. He knows enough to seek God in making decisions. He begins a journey that God has given him permission to embark on... so what's up with the talking donkey? I can't pretend to know why God became angry when Balaam was doing what God has said he could do. Here is the kicker. Although Balaam knew of God, he was not in tune with God to the point that he saw the angel blocking his path. Was he pre-occupied with the offer of financial gain? We can't be sure. Something blocked his "communion" with God... his direct line so to speak. God used what was available at the time to get Balaam's attention and remind him of his mission, that being to speak ONLY what God directed him to speak. I'm a very visual person, and can't help but laugh at the way it is presented. It sounds like the donkey did a number on Balaam... crushed his foot and such. In laymens terms, Balaam had his head so far up his "donkey" that he couldn't see God in the situation trying to spare his life.
Sometimes in our everyday lives, God uses "donkeys" to get our attention. This is a call to all of us to draw closer to God so that we recognize His moving and His leading. There may be things in life that He would permit us to do, but like Balaam, we sometimes tend to rush headlong into things and lose sight of God. In closing, take a look at these verses from I Peter:
1 Peter 5:6-11 (New Living Translation)
6 So humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and at the right time he will lift you up in honor. 7 Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you.
8 Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. 9 Stand firm against him, and be strong in your faith. Remember that your Christian brothers and sisters all over the world are going through the same kind of suffering you are.
10 In his kindness God called you to share in his eternal glory by means of Christ Jesus. So after you have suffered a little while, he will restore, support, and strengthen you, and he will place you on a firm foundation. 11 All power to him forever! Amen.
