i have a son that just turned 13 and needs a good 20ga.youth . also my youngest son 7 got older sons 20 ga rossi this is my biggest problem it kicks like a mule what can i do to it so it is not so bad to shoot. there is no way he can shoot a turkey load in it . he shot some low power in it to get use to it. and shot #6 high brass and will not shoot it anymore . oldest son wont even shoot it. thanks for any and all help.