Great post, I called a friend of mine yesterday (vetran of Vietnam 2 tours) that is having a hard time of it. Had his hip replaced, a new valve in his heart, he recently fell during recovery from his surgery cracked his skull and was in a coma for a month plus.
His wife in the mean time has dementia and he can not take care of her anymore so she is in a home and on her last leg.
Now the reason for the long post, when I ask Gary how he is doing his response is always above the grass and improving but never feeling sorry for himself. If you know a vetran call or go see them they do appreciate it!