Safety, safety, and more safety. Every kid is different. I didnt kill my first gobbler until I was 16. Howwver I went along with my Dad, Uncle, and Grandpa many times. Dad actually got me my first shotgun, a single shot H and R at age 6. He ingrained gun safety every time it was touched. All of the ones I mentioned going with were Military Veterans. I'm a Vet as well. I've taken my 2 young kids, boy and girl, last 2 seasons as the hunter. She is the oldest and she got her gobbler last year at the age of 11. He on the other hand is on his 3rd year try. He was 9 the first season he went. Each time when I hand them a shotgun I ask " What do you do when somebody hands you a gun?" They know the drill on checking the action. Safety. Point in safe direction, check chamber, check safety, clear weapon, Each and every time. It has to be taught and reiterated ALWAYS. That being said, I feel if they are taught correctly and fully comprehend how special hunting is it's okay. Speaking of that, its Youth season today. Getting him up to go after couple of gobblers I heard last night. Wish us luck! God Bless.